{"id":1858,"date":"2021-03-11T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-03-11T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/websites.emerson.edu\/undergraduate-students-publishing\/?p=1858"},"modified":"2021-03-11T17:47:19","modified_gmt":"2021-03-11T17:47:19","slug":"review-mariko-tamakis-laura-dean-keeps-breaking-up-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/orgs.emerson.edu\/undergraduate-students-publishing\/2021\/03\/11\/review-mariko-tamakis-laura-dean-keeps-breaking-up-with-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Review: Mariko Tamaki&#8217;s <i>Laura Dean Keeps Breaking Up with Me<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Emma Shacochis \/\/ Blog Assistant<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Frederica \u201cFreddy\u201d Riley feels like she\u2019s lucky. Her girlfriend, Laura Dean, is, on paper, the girl of her dreams: confident, popular, and beautiful. The only issue is that, almost every time a holiday rolls around, Laura finds a reason for the two of them to break up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"282\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/orgs.emerson.edu\/undergraduate-students-publishing\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2021\/03\/40864841-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1860\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orgs.emerson.edu\/undergraduate-students-publishing\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2021\/03\/40864841-1.jpg 282w, https:\/\/orgs.emerson.edu\/undergraduate-students-publishing\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2021\/03\/40864841-1-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/orgs.emerson.edu\/undergraduate-students-publishing\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2021\/03\/40864841-1-260x369.jpg 260w, https:\/\/orgs.emerson.edu\/undergraduate-students-publishing\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2021\/03\/40864841-1-160x227.jpg 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 282px) 100vw, 282px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Frustrated by her devotion to Laura\u2019s lies and infidelities, Freddy seeks help in the from emails to Anna Vice, an advice columnist; her group of best friends, none of whom are particularly keen on Laura themselves; and the Seek-Her, a fortune teller whose verdict on the situation is that Freddy must be the one to break up with Laura Dean. As she\u2019s drawn in again and again by Laura\u2019s charm, Freddy begins to feel more and more distant from her loved ones, her best friend Doodle (whose struggles she\u2019s oblivious to), and her sense of self.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a graphic novel,&nbsp;<em>Laura Dean Keeps Breaking Up with Me<\/em>&nbsp;features two elements that make the medium so enamoring: naturalistic dialogue, and gorgeous illustrations. Mariko Tamaki has created a cast of characters that you\u2019re allowed to see both sides of: Laura Dean\u2019s undeniable charisma&nbsp;<em>and<\/em>&nbsp;her abrupt dismissiveness, or Freddy\u2019s relief when she feels in love&nbsp;<em>and<\/em>&nbsp;the hurt her infatuation causes to her friends. The conversations and internal monologues of Tamaki&#8217;s teenaged cast of characters flow with ease, giving a sense of their age without falling into the all-too-easy trap of stereotypes or buzzwords (an especially prominent trope when the characters are as diverse as they are here). The majority of the main characters fall on the LGBTQ+ spectrum; while coming-out stories are still a vital part of the queer experience, <em>Laura Dean<\/em> is made particularly compelling by its focus on already being out, and the resulting difficulties that come with feeling \u201cothered\u201d by your identity. Amid her dive into how abuse in same-sex relationships can be easier to overlook, Tamaki also addresses the frequent dismissal of those who don\u2019t \u201ccome out right,\u201d and how parental support plays such a large role in the comfort&nbsp;that LGBTQ youth have in their own identities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rosemary Valero-O\u2019Connell\u2019s illustrations elevate the story further, as she adds beautiful shades of light pink to the traditionally black-and-white illustrations. Valero-O\u2019Connell is equally skilled in crafting expressions that openly show joy or anger <em>and<\/em> ones that convey purposefully hidden emotions, as Doodle draws away from Freddy or Freddy tries to play off her irritation at Laura. The quirky restaurants and stores that pepper the story\u2019s setting in Berkeley, California (such as the organic restaurant Freddy works at, where all of the dishes are named for famous lesbians) all sport a unique, fun, and above all authentic charm, while Valero-O&#8217;Connell invents undeniably weird yet undeniably adorable products of Freddy\u2019s hobby &#8211; sewing stuffed animal hybrids &#8211; to fill her room with (a half-mermaid, half-Santa manages to be a key player in an emotionally significant scene).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For a story that doesn\u2019t shy away from the angst and pain of unhealthy teenage relationships, Tamaki keeps&nbsp;<em>Laura Dean Keeps Breaking Up with Me&nbsp;<\/em>from wallowing in pain. No one in love, especially LGBTQ youth, is a stranger to struggle; however, that doesn&#8217;t mean angst is all that&#8217;s relevant to their story. Instead, <em>Laura Dean<\/em> builds to an ending that will leave readers with a sense of catharsis \u2013 and the message that no one is defined by being an \u201cex-\u201d of someone else.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Emma Shacochis \/\/ Blog Assistant Frederica \u201cFreddy\u201d Riley feels like she\u2019s lucky. Her girlfriend, Laura Dean, is, on paper, the girl of her dreams: confident, popular, and beautiful. 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